Communication. So many issues could be resolved by just talking to the person clearly and calmly instead of assuming they can read your mind and getting upset when they don’t respond the way you played out in your mind.
De-escalation. Even if you’re right, there’s a time and place where you need to let it go and revisit it at a more appropriate moment.
You can:
-Build anticipation by making her guess what you will do next and where on her body you will do it as you trace over her body with your fingers. It helps if she’s blindfolded.
-Include commands, name-calling, possessive talk, and teasing her if she likes that.
-Make her beg for your cock or to punish her. Have her tell you what she’ll do to earn it.
Similarly, choosing to walk almost everywhere unless it’s an emergency, even though I have transportation.
His name is Remy, and it wouldn’t hurt to ask him politely :P
I like power dynamics and having my partner decide how I look, behave, and have sex with him. That’s my main kink and it branches off into more specific things I’m willing to do to make him happy.
Things I’m not into at all that are hard limits include the usual extremes (scat, blood, etc.), and any type of age or animal related roleplay. I also don’t involve anyone but my partner in sex, so no group or public activities.
I peanut butter, bananas, berries, walnuts, and cinnamon into my oatmeal. Not necessarily all at the same time.
If you like sweet oats, you can add fruit jam to them too.
Oh, he has risen alright ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Hah, thanks :D I only remembered that highbrow was an actual word after I posted the Need for Weed thing.
This is some highbrow humor.
Thank you for explaining it nicely :) that is what I meant to say.
For a second I confused Tommy Cash with Tommy Wiseau and the quote still made sense.
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Sleeping on his side, losing weight, and not smoking are all immediate things that could help, assuming he doesn’t do those things already. Have him get tested for sleep apnea, as that can sometimes be a cause of snoring.
How would you express both dominance and romance/affection at once? In your post you gave an example of “a big cuddly woman spoiling her partner with affection…” - Two people in a relationship might know the woman is the dominant one, but from a viewer’s perspective it just looks like cuddling. Those are the nuances that are hard to express to a viewer.
No, I get that! I just wish it was more active here and in communities dedicated to writing erotica, roleplay, and other forms of text-based interactions, if they exist on Lemmy.
Asking where someone is from is a common bit of information people ask/share during introductions, so it’s normal to be curious about that. It’s also normal to want to maintain privacy online, so don’t let randoms on the internet pressure you into sharing anything you’re not comfortable with.
What you’re looking for is “gentle femdom”. Porn in general skews aggressive and performative, probably because that type of sex is easier to visualize than tender, loving emotions felt between a couple. The former is easier to watch without having to relate to it. The latter is more entertaining to experience than to watch.
“Water me, asshole”
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Go drunk OP, you’re home.
Thanks for the info! Which instances do you recommend that don’t collect data?