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Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.works to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 7 个月前

Meeeeee~ :3

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Meeeeee~ :3

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Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.works to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 7 个月前
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  • Zzyzx@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 个月前

    I was wondering if I am a femboy, and then realized the joy of being genderfluid means that I sometimes am I guess

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      What is the chemical composition of this gender fluid? I have experiments to conduct.

      • Zzyzx@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        In my case, probably mostly depression lol.

        • kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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          Same :,3

  • Another Catgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Wow I’m transfem and the only difference between this femboy and me is the gender identity

    • alx@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 个月前

      same :3

    • AuroraB@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 个月前

      Same :3

    • icmpecho@lemmy.ml
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      deleted by creator

  • HoodieGyaru@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Where is my clingy femboyfriend? 😩

    • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      We’re all on the internet rn because outside is getting v scary

    • Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.worksOP
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      7 个月前

      If I knew how to find one, I’d tell you!

  • UraniumBlazer@lemm.ee
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    7 个月前

    Sigh… Another thing I want but can’t get :(

    • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 个月前

      Femboys exist in real life! There are dozens of us!

      • Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.worksOP
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        7 个月前

        Dozens I say!

    • Another Catgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 个月前

      You can get OwO. There’s peeps like meowt there!

    • Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.worksOP
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      7 个月前

      Aye, same here 3:

  • Nat (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 个月前

    The only reason I’m technically bi

  • Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 个月前

    I tick a loooot of these boxes. 😶

    No desire to be a boy tho.

  • max@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 个月前

    hey mods doxxing isnt okayyyy(wawa this is so me)

    • weeeeum@lemmy.world
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      7 个月前

      Omg I was literally about to send this to u

    • Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.worksOP
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      7 个月前

      Cute :3

  • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 个月前

    Hey I have plenty of kissing experience thank you.

    Also there is no chance of me topping. I was assigned bottom at birth.

    • Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.worksOP
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      I wish I had kissing experience D:

      • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        7 个月前

        I bet I could show you the basics :3

        • Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.worksOP
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          7 个月前

          Oooh yes please~

  • PowerfulTurtle@lemmy.ca
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    So relatable. Me and my boyfriend tick a surprising number of these.

    • Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.worksOP
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      7 个月前

      So jealous!!

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    7 个月前

    I feel like I might be in a pipeline to this.

    Quite a few points fit me, more than a few years ago.

    • coacoamelky@lemm.ee
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      7 个月前

      Why don’t we discuss this over drinks bud.

  • python@lemmy.world
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    deleted by creator

    • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 个月前

      Gender is made up anyway. Just wear what you like and pursue the body you want, whatever that means to you :)

  • Cano@lemm.ee
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    Nah sorry, stealing my hoodie is a dealbreaker for me

    • Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.social
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      7 个月前

      They only steal them cuz they smell like you! 🥰

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        7 个月前

        Then just smell me and get your hands off my hoodie 😡

        • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          What if you wore our hoodies, so then they smell like you?

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      Why not steal their hoodies too? Then everyone is happy.

      My boyfriend often steals my hoodies and I also steal his. It’s great.

  • thespcicifcocean@lemmy.world
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    How does it work if I fit most of these criteria but am not currently a cat femboy boyfriend? Should I expect my cat ears and stockings to come in the mail or something?

  • yoriaiko@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Hey, I don’t bite (if not asked)

    • Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.worksOP
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      I’ll ask >:3

      • yoriaiko@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Ouch… are we talking about internet, virtual chomp or actual irl chomp? (kinda scared of answer to that, but trying to be silly brave).

        • AuroraB@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          I like biting people and being mildly bitten irl :3

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            <mildly chomp>

        • Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.worksOP
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          Virtual chomp! We (probably) don’t know each other irl

          • yoriaiko@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            CHOMP CHOMP CHOMP…

            munch munch munch…

            crispy :D

            • Chaotic Cookie@sh.itjust.worksOP
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              I’m so tasty :3

  • Superb@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Oops I tick all the boxes 😳

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      Hiii :3 haiiii hello

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