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Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com · 3 months ago

For #submissivesunday I'd like to know about what triggers you to feel most submissive...

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For #submissivesunday I'd like to know about what triggers you to feel most submissive...

Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com · 3 months ago
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For #submissivesunday I’d like to know about what triggers you to feel most submissive…

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    Assertive dom. When they make me feel I really don’t have any other options than to submit.

    I’m a switch and brat and subbing doesn’t always come naturally for me. In the beginning of a scene I have a tendency to start ‘topping from the bottom’, even if I consciously try to avoid it, and the dom can’t let that happen. Once I manage to let go, I do absolutely enjoy it and can enter a deep subspace, but I can’t do it without the dom really pushing and “breaking” me first. It’s kinda hard to explain and I don’t even fully understand it myself but at least I know some other top-leaning switches I’ve talked to have had similar experiences.

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        @MuscularGoddess @JRaccoon and you certainly look like someone who could break any residual stubbornness or attempts at control 👀

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            @MuscularGoddess well brute strength for sure, but maybe also looks, strength of will and intelligence as well…potentially?

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                @MuscularGoddess ngl, just reading that literally got me hard

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    It’s almost a decision sometimes.

    Being physically restrained by a guy can do it, not bondage just with his body, I had a guy once get very excited when I had the natural untrained response to him kinda throwing me down.

    Rope bondage doesn’t. It feels kind of silly.

    “Good girl” gets me every time.

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    Just my partner’s desire. Especially if they display it in an assertive manner! Yes, I will do whatever you ask of me 😍

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    Wanna chat?

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    Sensing someone’s “hunger” certainly makes me fold.

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