• @EatATaco@lemm.ee
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    -710 months ago

    I swear, 9 times out of 10, when I come across one of your posts, you’re misrepresenting what’s happening in order to artificially ramp up your outrage.

    Nothing in the policy requires black kids to have the same haircut as white kids. The school even noted that locs are fine, but the length is not.

    It’s a dumb policy that should go, but injecting race into it, without showing that white guys have gotten away with having long hair, is just disingenuous.

    • @ToastedPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      610 months ago

      https://thegrio.com/2024/02/21/school-rules-governing-hair-are-rooted-in-racist-plans-to-control-black-peoples-appearance-scholars-and-lawmakers-say/

      It has been long understood that policies and actions targeting the length of hair disproportional affects Black and Hispanic people. It is about race.

      The school even noted that locs are fine, but the length is not.

      This is called a dog whistle.

      https://www.merriam-webster.com/wordplay/dog-whistle-political-meaning

      Systems of oppression don’t have to explicitly target a group of people in order to succeed. They can be fairly obtuse and still have the desired effect.

      without showing that white guys have gotten away with having long hair

      White guys in America don’t have a culture heritage of growing out long hair. Whether or not White guys can get away with it is not the metric of a policy being racist. Regulating male hair length disproportionately effects White guys less and Black guys more. By disproportionately I mean, despite there being a smaller percentage of Black people in the population, Black people make up a larger percentage of people punished by hair length regulations in schools. Minorities are the target here. It’s about cultural erasure.

      • @EatATaco@lemm.ee
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        -210 months ago

        It has been long understood that policies and actions targeting the length of hair disproportional affects Black and Hispanic people. It is about race.

        First, no one is denying that these codes have been used to oppress individuality of minorities. We both agree this is the case. But that doesn’t mean any dress code itself is racist.

        Like even in the article you posted, it notes:

        “Schools were not designed with Black children in mind,” she said. “Our forefathers of education were all white men who set the tone for what schools would be … and what the purposes are of schooling — one of those being conformity. That’s one of the key ideas that was actually introduced in the 1800s.”"

        And this is my point. It’s a about conformity. These types of rules have existed long before integration. They should definitely not exist in a free society at all, but the idea that hair length is in-and-of-itself is racist is not supported by the facts. Could it be? Sure, I would open to be convinced that this rule is being unfairly applied to black kids and other minorities. In that case I would absolutely agree.

        White guys in America don’t have a culture heritage of growing out long hair.

        Who says? This is a huge coming-of-age thing I see all the time. I’m not even sure if young black men like to wear long hair more than young white men. I would say a much higher percentage of my white friends have had long hair than my black friends. We even have movies like Dead Poet’s society, Dazed and Confused, and (loosely) The breakfast club, where pressure by authority to conform by cutting hair is an element. It’s a tale “as old as time”: school administration wanting boys to conform by cutting their hair. Long hair has long been a symbol of anti-conformity for this exact reason.

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          First, no one is denying that these codes have been used to oppress individuality of minorities. We both agree this is the case. But that doesn’t mean any dress code itself is racist

          The oppression of minorities is racism.

          It’s a about conformity.

          To White people’s standards of physical appearance.

          Long hair has long been a symbol of anti-conformity for this exact reason.

          White people’s culture typically depicts men with short hair. What your argument is describing is older generations of White people subjecting younger generations of White people to their cultural heritage. Some Black people celebrate their culture where men have long hair. While the policy does punish White people who are rejecting their cultural heritage it disproportionately affects Black people who are trying to celebrate their cultural heritage. Inequality harms everyone, but it doesn’t harm everyone equally. We would all be better off with equality. edit: capitalization

          • @EatATaco@lemm.ee
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            -110 months ago

            The oppression of minorities is racism.

            Incorrect. The oppression of someone because of their race is racism. A minority could be oppressed because of their sex and that would be sexism, not racism. A minority could be oppressed because of their socio-economic standing and that would classism, not racism. A minority could be oppressed just because the oppressor is an asshole, and that would not be racism.

            To White people’s standards of physical appearance.

            Agreed. Although, I would say western standard more than white, but it’s more a subset rather than something separate.

            White people’s culture typically depicts men with short hair.

            Depends on the culture. Also you’re talking about modern western culture. Not white culture in general. Even the US, which is a baby of a country, has had presidents who had long hair while in office. Almost as late as the 1850s.

            disproportionately affects Black people

            I’ve yet to see anyone actually make a case for young black young men having/desiring long hair more than young white men. My experience is the exact opposite. Of course that is anecdotal and I’m not offering out to prove anything, but only to say why I don’t simply accept the claim as a postulate.

            We would all be better off with equality.

            Sure. But assuming that because something affected a black person it means it must be racism is not equality and we are not better off with it. And that is what I believe is happening here. I mean, we’re talking about policies that existed in historically white schools even before segregation. It’s not like schools wanting kids to have short hair is some new thing, it’s always been a tool of conformity to western standards. That now being applied to black people too is not racism, it’s just dumb as it always has been.

            • @ToastedPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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              110 months ago

              Incorrect. The oppression of someone because of their race is racism. A minority could be oppressed because of their sex and that would be sexism, not racism. A minority could be oppressed because of their socio-economic standing and that would classism, not racism. A minority could be oppressed just because the oppressor is an asshole, and that would not be racism.

              The oppression of racial minorities is racism. This was evident based on the context of our discussion, but your argument splits hairs anyway.

              Depends on the culture. Also you’re talking about modern western culture. Not white culture in general. Even the US, which is a baby of a country, has had presidents who had long hair while in office. Almost as late as the 1850s.

              We are discussing a school in the United States in the year 2024. So it makes sense we would talk about modern White people culture here in the United States in this post-wig time period.

              I’ve yet to see anyone actually make a case for young black young men having/desiring long hair more than young white men. My experience is the exact opposite. Of course that is anecdotal and I’m not offering out to prove anything, but only to say why I don’t simply accept the claim as a postulate.

              The abundance of articles on a casual google search demonstrate this is something Black people are struggling with. It’s not a secret.

              But assuming that because something affected a black person

              It affects Black and Hispanic people disproportionately. That’s the give away that the policies are racially motivated.

              That now being applied to black people too is not racism

              It is being applied to students now to erase Black culture which is a form of racism. The fact it has affected White people previously and is currently doesn’t exclude it from being racist. White people being harmed by inequality doesn’t mean it’s not inequality. Again, we are all harmed by inequality, but not all of us are harmed equally. Black people are harmed more by racism, but we are all harmed by racism even if it’s to a lesser degree. White people would be better off without racism.

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                This was evident based on the context of our discussion,

                I’ve repeatedly stated that this is a policy meant to enforce conformity among boys and is likely not racism. The only one ignoring context on this point is you.

                We are discussing a school in the United States in the year 2024.

                lol. Just a couple of posts ago you had a whole paragraph arguing about how it’s cultural heritage.

                What your argument is describing is older generations of White people subjecting younger generations of White people to their cultural heritage. Some Black people celebrate their culture where men have long hair. While the policy does punish White people who are rejecting their cultural heritage it disproportionately affects Black people who are trying to celebrate their cultural heritage. Inequality harms everyone, but it doesn’t harm everyone equally. We would all be better off with equality. edit: capitalization

                Apparently you don’t know what heritage means:

                Something that is passed down from preceding generations; a tradition.

                Your argument is literally that because there is a history of long black hair, having them cut their hair is racist. But now when that point falls apart under scrutiny, we are no longer talking about the past and tradition, we are talking just about current culture.

                Now, do the trick you always do when your point gets destroyed and whine about me “splitting hairs.”

                It affects Black and Hispanic people disproportionately.

                Still waiting for this evidence. You’ve alluded to a lot, but have provided nothing.

                The fact it has affected White people previously and is currently doesn’t exclude it from being racist. White people being harmed by inequality doesn’t mean it’s not inequality. Again, we are all harmed by inequality, but not all of us are harmed equally. Black people are harmed more by racism, but we are all harmed by racism even if it’s to a lesser degree. White people would be better off without racism.

                On this point we agree. What we disagree on is that we know this particular rule is racist or being applied in a racist manner or that it’s intent is to erase black culture. I think (although could be convinced otherwise) it’s the same thing that it has always been: forcing conformity on young men.

      • @EatATaco@lemm.ee
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        -310 months ago

        Can we take a moment to appreciate the irony of me being called a troll because I’m not conforming with the general opinion around here?

          • @EatATaco@lemm.ee
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            -110 months ago

            You’re only admitting that you don’t understand the difference between fact and opinion.

            • @ToastedPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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              310 months ago

              It’s got nothing to do with me.

              The policies that regulate hair length for male students are designed to target minorities and are racist. These are facts. Picking alternate facts is not an opinion.

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                These are facts.

                I’m sure it’s true in some cases, but the blanket claim that it’s the only reason is an opinion (and almost certainly an incorrect one at that). So the fact that you don’t understand the difference between a fact and a opinion has everything to do with you.

                • @ToastedPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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                  210 months ago

                  It’s true for the case that we are discussing in the article and every other time it’s been used to punish minorities. Your argument is splitting hairs over word choice instead focusing on the content of my argument.

                  • @EatATaco@lemm.ee
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                    110 months ago

                    Your argument is splitting hairs over word choice

                    You claimed an opinion was a fact and that I was factually wrong for having a different opinion than you. It’s not “splitting hairs” to point out you have no clue what you’re talking about.

                    If you recognize that you used the wrong word, say “I apologize, you’re right, I used the wrong term” and then simply rephrase your argument. Stop trying to make it my fault you said something absolutely ridiculous and I called it out