TheEmpireStrikesDak

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Cake day: April 25th, 2025

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  • ClientException with SocketException: Connection reset by peer (OS Error: Connection reset by peer, errno = 104), address = thelemmy.club, port = 49412, uri=https://thelemmy.club/pictrs/ image/eedd31c0-35c9-4234-bae6-9eacdc74a4c2.jpeg

    This is the error code that Connect shows when trying to view an image I posted a few weeks ago.

    ChatGPT (sorry) says:

    Cause and Fix: This error typically means the server (in this case, thelemmy.club) forcefully closed the connection. Common causes include:

    The server being down or blocking your IP.

    A timeout or network instability.

    Incompatible or broken TLS/SSL handshake.

    I know it likes to make up a lot of nonsense, so I just want to check the error is definitely on my side and not the server blocking me.


  • UK figures from 2022: Deaths: 1,695 Serious injury: 28,101

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reported_Road_Casualties_Great_Britain

    But it’s so normalised. Rarely newsworthy, it’s so acceptable. I’m seeing more and more SUVs (Chelsea tractors) in London, the most ridiculously huge emotional support vehicles. Standing at the bus stop watching the cars go by, nearly all of them have just a driver, no passengers. We have good public transport in London, and I get there will always be some people for whom buses or bikes aren’t an option, but I wish there was more of a move away from cars.

    As a cyclist, some drivers (a minority, but even one is too much) will happily leave barely a few centimetres clearance when passing. Or get unnecessarily aggressive because there isn’t room to overtake, even though there’s a red light anyway, so why the rush? I swear, you stick someone in a car and suddenly other people’s lives are expendable if it means shaving 3 seconds off their journey.

    (Morons on modded ebikes - effectively unlicenced motorbikes really - are another gripe for another day. Red lights apply to you too, you muppets. And get off the frickin pavement.)








  • It doesn’t apply in my case. I’m a woman and I have a female friend (former coworker, she’s moved back to NI now) who I can just pick up with where we left off. She forgot to install telegram for almost a year on her new phone so I had to text her to remind her I exist, and we just went back to chatting like nothing happened. I’m autistic and she’s a bit weird, so I don’t know if that affects anything. But we can go a few months without chatting and it doesn’t matter. In my case, if someone is important/significant to me, then it doesn’t matter if a few months go by. Same with the few relatives I get on with. If we’re talking several years, then yeah, people change, grow, move on.