I can’t put many details right now because I am at work. But I want to know if anyone else struggles with this or has advice?

I will update with details later.

  • TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today
    8·
    10 days ago

    The devil is in the details… Being nuerodivergent doesn’t exactly give you the right to make requests that would be unreasonable in any other marriage. Adaptation and communication are important in any long term relationship, but it really depends on the extent of what your request is more than it has to do with being on the spectrum.

    • James Baxter@discuss.onlineOPEnglish
      12·
      10 days ago

      Assume I’m a good person asking for help from those who can contribute. I mentioned that more details will be coming after my shift ends. I’m confused by the purpose of your comments. I don’t see what is being added to the conversation other than a suggestion to communicate better.

      Please assume the best of my intentions and that the 101 steps for help are understood.

      • TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today
        2·
        9 days ago

        I’m confused by the purpose of your comments. I don’t see what is being added to the conversation other than a suggestion to communicate better.

        Mainly just saying that no one is going to be able to really help until you actually communicate what your specific scenario is. Otherwise the only thing anyone really can say is to talk it out with your partner.