• NickwithaC@lemmy.world
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    9 hours ago

    You forgot “cis allies making fun on cis transphobes” which I calculate to be a larger slice of the pie than all the others combined.

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    People have evolved stereotyping and assuming things cause it was beneficial from the evolutionary perspective.

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      Still is, people use heuristic thinking every day of their lives. It’s not like we’d be better off removing that part of us, the ability to make quick and decisive decisions should be applauded. We just need to remember that the first conclusion we jump to is not always correct.

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    The ONE time I heard this, I said it myself at the Gamestop where I’m a regular as a joke.

    I was asked Cash or Credit, and I in a faux-outraged voice just asked “Did you just assume my tender?”

    Then me and the cashier laughed.

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    Actually, trans is like 0.1% of the total population, so that sliver of trans people who say that should much tinier.

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        “Foreword: This article uses “trans” as an umbrella term, inclusive of all nonbinary and binary trans and nonbinary genders.”

        Yeah that is definitely argument worthy. Trans is short for transitioning/transitioned.

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          Trans is short for transgender. Being transgender is not identifying with the gender assigned at birth, so I don’t see the issue with the foreword.

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          You’re opening a huuuge can of worms there, lol. I think even transmedicalists would say you can be trans even if you’re not actively transitioning yet.

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            Wikipedia isn’t a source, the sources are found at the bottom of the wikipedia page. The “transition” can be more than just the surgery, but not every nonbinary is trans automatically. Some people are just what they are, and have always been, without ever trying to change what they are.

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              Wikipedia isn’t a source, the sources are found at the bottom of the wikipedia page.

              I was just linking a term not everyone might know, to to be nice

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    Yeah, the only time I actually heard that phrase in real life was at a transsexual gaming night, followed by a burst of laughter.

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        Did you just assume Gaming Night’s transness? Transsexual is a thing, and it’s distinct from transgender.

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          It’s not really that distinct, no. Not unless you’re transmed and believe pre and post op trans people need to divided from each other.

          Youre free to use whatever terms you’d like to use for yourself, but transsexual was how people referred to all transgender people until the term transgender took off in the late 90s.

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          Can you explain what it means to me? I’m nb and I’ve always disliked it because it tends to confuse people, making them think being trans is a sexuality.

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              It implies a sex change op which is quite invasive of people’s privacy. It’s also inaccurate for a lot of trans folks who may only change their gender expression and avoid the operation altogether, hence the adoption of transgender that has the right emphasis.

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              Not op, but I was taught by one of my trans friends it was an old term and not very correct nowadays as it inferred being trans was something sexual and not just yknow, bring trans ig

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    I don’t even make the chart? CIS father of a trans kid trying to make the trans kid laugh when they try to get my attention at the store by saying “Dad!”

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    🟩 me when accosted by an irate middle aged woman while exiting the pointlessly gendered single seat bathroom (I am a fully housebroken husband)

    ETA: by housebroken I mean i sit when i pee and clean up anything left on the bowl or seat that flushing doesn’t handle. It’s just good manners