If I mention my friend’s boyfriend once, I’m obsessed with her dating life.

If I send a “gotta go” text to someone, which takes a few seconds, I’m suddenly wasting time and always on my phone.

If I calmly tell my grandma that her statement is not true, she says I’m easily offended and being a snowflake.

If I say the name of a TV show, they think I’m unhealthily obsessed with it.

I’m yelled at if I’m not the ideal, quiet girl. Is this normal? How can I let them get to know me like they want to do?