They exchanged text messages and emojis. Brief status updates with words of encouragement. A picture of the beloved family dog “Tutsi.”

Until no more messages came.

And then, Cindy Flash, an American, and her Israeli husband Igal vanished into the violence, presumed kidnapped by Hamas.

Four days after Hamas attacked Israel, more than 100 Israelis and potentially dozens of foreign nationals are thought to be held captive in the Gaza Strip. At least 14 U.S. citizens have been killed and an unknown number are still unaccounted for.

Flash, 67, originally from St. Paul, Minnesota, is one of them. She lives in Kfar Aza, a kibbutz in southern Israel near Gaza, where some of the most harrowing and grisly stories have been emerging during the last few days.

“They are breaking down the safe room door,” Flash said in one of her final messages to her daughter Keren, 34. “We need someone to come by the house right now.” She had been communicating with her parents from a few houses away.

Keren described her mother, who worked as an administrator in a local college, as someone who had the “sweetest biggest heart,” who everyone knew and loved, and who had spent a lifetime advocating for the rights of Palestinians, including those who live in Gaza where she may now be held.

    • @jarfil@lemmy.world
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      Hamas ≢ Palestine

      Ok, but how truish are “Hamas ≠ Palestine” and “Hamas ≈ Palestine”? At what point do we draw the line?

    • @Gerula@lemmy.world
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      Questions: Who is fighting for Hamas? From where the “boots on the ground” come from? How can they organise amidst civilian population to take any coordinated actions?

      • XIIIesq
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        Assuming that your questions are rhetorical and that you are placing blame on all Palestinian citizens for the actions of Hamas. By the same logic, all Americans are guilty for the Jan 6th attack on the capital and all the other horrific acts America have committed around the world.

        • @Gerula@lemmy.world
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          No, my questions are not rethorical. Any such movement cannot live separated from the local population. They cannot organise in secret if nobody is keeping that secret. They cannot train if the others don’t keep the secret. They cannot manufacture, hide and launch thousands of small range rockets if other don’t keep a secret.

          I’m not arguing about justifications or who did what and why. It’s not relevant for this discussion.

          • XIIIesq
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            No, my questions are not rethorical.

            Goes on to talk about how they were making a point rather than wanting an answer to their questions

            • @Browning
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              If a terrorist is someone who attacks civilians for political aims, then yes.

              • tryptaminev 🇵🇸 🇺🇦 🇪🇺
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                That is pretty much textbook. Someone or some party that uses violence and the threat of violence to create fear in the pursuit of political goals.

                Problem is that applies to most nation states that are active on the global scale. So the political use can be reduced to “terrorists are always the others”

                • Cethin
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                  It’s pretty much always “terrorist are when those without power use the tools of fear against those with power.” All “freedom fighters” are terrorists who won pretty much. All nations are terrorists who get to use their power and influence to convince others they aren’t.

              • @ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca
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                A terrorist is a member of a non-government military group that uses violence for political gains

                Attacking civilians isn’t related

              • Cethin
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                What is your definition? It’s got to be interesting if it isn’t the one everyone else has decided is the correct one.

              • @Sparlock@lemmy.world
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                Then why do you keep replying when you are dead wrong? Can’t even be consistent on keeping your word.

          • @Sparlock@lemmy.world
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            Hamas are terrorists, Netanyahu is a terrorist. If a terrorist is someone who attacks civilians for political aims.

            I find it hard to discriminate Civilian A who was killed from Civilian B who was killed by the other side. Apparently that is a controversial statement around here. Ya’ll are fucked.

      • @SCB@lemmy.world
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        Hamas was never elected as sole leadership in Palestine. They never won a plurality of votes, ever.

        They formed a unity government, then fought the other government, usurped control, and cancelled elections forever.

        • @flossdaily@lemmy.world
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          Hamas won 74 out of 132 seats. They did it with 44 percent of the vote. Not sure how that worked.

          Anyway, you’re kind of right, kind of wrong.

          • @SCB@lemmy.world
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            Same way Republicans do it in Ohio, one assumes. Heavy concentration in minority-population areas.

        • @ComradeKhoumrag@infosec.pub
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          And the Palestinian authority is really a puppet government that Israel allows Palestine to have, so it’s not like any available option is really good

          • @SCB@lemmy.world
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            No lol. One of Israel’s dumbest moves ever was empowering Hamas as they saw it as an alternative to the Palestinian Authority

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          This should be said more often and more forcefully, as its knowledge people (including myself) are not generally aware of.

      • @zaph@sh.itjust.works
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        20 years ago. Around half of today’s population didn’t vote and of the ones that did many didn’t vote for hamas. Find a new way to blame innocent people, this one doesn’t work.

        • @mycatiskai@lemmy.one
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          Half of the population is below 19 years old. So they weren’t even born when Hamas was elected.

          The average age of Palestinians is 19. The average age of Israelis is 30. That tells you one thing, that you don’t live a long life if your Palestinian.

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            Living in what human rights groups and the UN describe as an open air prison under bombarded from a neighboring country isn’t exactly the best thing for life expectancy.

            Roughly 2.3 million people live on the Gaza Strip out of the roughly 5 million people living in Palestine BTW, which is the area currently being bombarded by Israel in response to the terrorist attack by Hamas.

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              I wouldn’t put a lot of stock in how the United Nations describes anything to do with Israel. Their bias is of the charts.

              Remember, this is an organization that officially denounced Israel for human rights violations 20 times in one year, and for every other nation on Earth, with all the modern slavery, sex trafficking, genial mutilation, honor killings, murder of LGBTQ, marriage and rape of 7-yr-girls, denying basic education to women, forcing women to fully cover their bodies, mass incarcerations, etc,etc… For all the rest of the world, 6 denouncements.

              So yeah, the UN is not a serious organization when it comes to Israel.

                • @Siegfried@lemmy.world
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                  Amnesty international wasn’t the one that faked reports on Russian concentration camps in kherson?

                • @flossdaily@lemmy.world
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                  Any organization that calls Israel “apartheid” is comically biased.

                  Israel is the only country in the region where a lesbian Muslim woman can vote, get an education and hold elected office.

                  Claiming it’s apartheid is like claiming the US was apartheid when occupying Iraq because we didn’t allow Iraqis to be citizens of the US.

                  Words have meanings, and the accusation is demonstrably absurd.

          • @zaph@sh.itjust.works
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            I don’t think we should condemn an entire population to death regardless of who they vote for. You’re only adding recruitment material to the terrorist’s repertoire at that point. And if they did vote for them, last year or today, you still have roughly 40% of the population who are minors. Do they deserve death because of their parent’s vote?

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              If you want to stop Israel to defend themselves from Hamas you condemn them to death because Hamas wants to kill all Jews. How is that better?

              Just let Hamas “win” can certainly not be the solution.

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                I never said they can’t defend themselves. I said indiscriminate bombing of Gaza isn’t self defense. Especially if hamas has hostages, how are they going to survive the bombing? Use your head. If someone is robbing a bank and taking hostages we don’t level the fucking bank.

              • @zaph@sh.itjust.works
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                Nowhere did I accuse you of supporting genocide. You asked if they’d still vote hamas and I don’t know so I replied with the assumption that they would because of the propaganda they’re raised with and the threat of violence if they dissent from hamas and stated that even if they did I don’t think they deserve to be treated as an entire nation of terrorists. If you can’t separate that from yourself that’s on you.

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            Overwhelmingly? In Gaza maybe, but Palestinians as a whole support them at 53 percent at last count. So, yeah, it sure looks like they are still majority pro-hamas

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        The article clearly states “advocate for Palestinians, then Hamas came for her” like it’s some “voting for the face eating leopards” situation. It’s a valid distinction. Also, no, the Israeli army isn’t all Israelis.

        • @Son_of_dad@lemmy.world
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          It’s hard to see the difference between Palestinians and Hamas when they had a pro Palestine rally in my city and their signs were peppered with “death to all Jews” and pictures of Jewish caricatures being hanged.

          • @wildginger@lemmy.myserv.one
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            You must be pretty stupid if you struggle to see the difference between hamas and normal palestinians

            Do you think piss is apple juice, because theyre both a liquid and they could be the same color sometimes if you squint?

            • @TokenBoomer@lemmy.world
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              Please calm down if you can. Don’t let the miseducated get you emotional. They are victims of disinformation and propaganda, and it takes time to work through it. 👍

            • @Son_of_dad@lemmy.world
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              Ok so don’t. These people are just like the IDF and the people shouting death to Jews are just like Hamas, what’s the problem here? Seems we’re in agreement

              • @Lucent@lemmy.world
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                One group has the power to complete annihilate the other.

                The other is living in the largest open air prison & concentration camp in the world.

                This is a ghetto uprising. Something I would expect you to know the history of.

      • @deft@ttrpg.network
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        where did he say that?

        sick of you fuckers not letting people feel complexly about this. fuck off

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    I really don’t understand why people decided to live in these kibbutz right next to the Gaza border and never realize that this might happen.

    It’s like sitting right on the very edge of the shoulder of a very busy highway. Eventually you will be hit by a fast moving car.

    It’s disputed territory with the potential of becoming a war zone at any moment and people decided to buy expensive real estate and build beautiful homes next to impoverished people that have nothing.

    And we should be surprised that this happened?

    What the Palestinians did was terrible … but we should all be reading the headlines with a lot of history and context. None of it is justified by any side … but at the same time, none of it is a surprise.

    • Armok: God of Blood
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      Seoul is 11 km from the North Korean border. People just assume things won’t go wrong until they do.

      • JJROKCZ
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        Moving a city is quite the feat compared to just not building houses blocks from a military DMZ

      • @AWistfulNihilist@lemmy.world
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        People in South Korea are not regularly bombed in rocket attacks, SK does not require houses have steel-reinforced concrete bunkers.

        The last time a North Korean killed a South Korean was a long time ago, I don’t know that I would call these situations comparable.

        If NK did start shelling Seoul and attacking civilians near the DMZ, that would legitimately be unexpected.

    • @wolfylow@lemmy.world
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      Man, if I could upvote this comment more than once I would.

      Expresses my sentiments exactly.

      I visited Israel years ago - shortly after the assassination of Yitzhak Rabin - and remember coming across a class (girls, around 7-8 years old) out on a school trip … and they had 3 guys carrying assault rifles to protect them. And I remember thinking: “whatever it is you’re fighting for … isn’t worth it if you have to live like this”

      And sadly I think it’s only got worse since that time.

    • @Aceticon@lemmy.world
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      Yesterday on TV over here, they showed a satellite picture of an area of Hamas’ incursion across the border were you can see both sides of the border line and the border itself.

      And the commentator said: “Here you can see the destruction caused by the attack”

      And it’s only after a few seconds of looking at the area that looks like a junkyard and a mess and thinking “yes indeed, it’s all trashed” that you notice that actually the black smoke is all on the opposite side of the border, the one with lots of space and nature, with little villages, which would look idyllic if not for the smoke.

      The overpopulated slum on the left side that looks like a junkyard on a satellite picture is the Gaza side and just a wall away on the right side is this idyllic area with lots of space and nature, a place were the people from the left side will never be allowed to live or even just visit.

      How could anybody ever imagine that it would be safe to live in spacious homes and comparative luxury, right next an area were people are forced to, since the day they were born, live in what’s basically an overcrowded slum?

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        It still begs the question.

        Who would want to buy real estate and settle into a home right next to a militarized border that separates you from a country that has many individuals that want to murderously destroy you and your entire family? In an area that might at any time turn into a war zone?

        • @the_wise_wolf@feddit.de
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          I guess that applies to the whole of Israel, though. Gaza is the most dangerous hot spot right now. But I don’t know if that has always been the case. Hamas came to power in 2006. I guess people just carried on, hoping for the best and trusting in the security forces. But honestly all of that is speculation. My point was just, that the reasons for people living there are complicated.

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      Why it should happen to us, exactly? People build up tolerance to accept this kind of gambling-as-a-routine, especially if the rules are obfuscated and conditioned by other things. Consider now how suicidal is a process of driving a car to work – but you can’t avoid it this morning and there are many safeguards at place to make it less risky. They just go with it, they rationalize it before they stop giving a fuck. And it is layered, as many parties approved such a thing to be.

      Politicians push to approve construction there and guarantee it’s safe because their career depends on it, like one of safety-promising Benj. Companies buy a plot and develop this place into housing because high risk => high reward and FOMO. Young people and re-pats buys them because they need a house, it’s their best affordable option and two other parties said it won’t get them killed. Such a snowball, growing bigger at each turn, and each next party has less agency there. And it could be stopped at any of them, I guess?

      I’ve seen that with Crimea: occupiers waving a hand to their rich oligarch friends in the biz, companies taking random bits of land to develop, building apartments in the middle of nowhere, people buying property there. I knew some of the latter. They had a fascinating list of reasons why to buy it and none of them thought that there’s any chance of water and energy limiting, escalation and, for sure, Ukrainian advancement. But at the time they’ve settled there, these phantom risk were outweighted by Crimea’s good climate and them not getting any housing otherwise for that price.

      Frugal person pays twice, as our saing goes.

      • IninewCrow
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        And it’s not like they are talking about cheap real estate either

        The new houses, each sitting on a 500 square meter (5,380 square foot) plot, go for between NIS 1.2 million ($335,000) for 90 square meters (970 square feet) to NIS 1.8 million ($500,000) for 180 square meters (1,940 square feet).

        By comparison, a 94 square meter (1,012 square foot) first floor apartment in Rishon LeZion in central Israel sold last week for NIS 1.96 million ($546,000) while a 184 square meter (1,980 square foot) house with a 247 square meter (2,660 square foot) garden sold in the same city for NIS 2.7 million ($752,500), according to the Globes business newspaper.

        https://www.timesofisrael.com/despite-rockets-arson-balloons-israeli-communities-on-gaza-border-keep-growing/

        If I had access to half a million dollars to purchase or invest in real estate … I wouldn’t want to invest in a location that could be destroyed by war or risk me and my family to violence or death.

    • Bilb!
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      It really does seem like an inevitable outcome of the status quo. I think it’s silly to pretend otherwise.

    • @flossdaily@lemmy.world
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      “None of it is justified by any side …“

      Strong disagree. Israel has a right to exist and a right to defend itself.

      • @NewDark
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        By cutting off food, electricity, water, and escape from their concentration camp? Doing that to 2 million people is “defending itself”? This is genocide.

      • @PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee
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        Israel doesn’t have a right to exist, but the Hebrews have a right to live on the land and to defend themselves from attack. The problem comes from people refusing to accept that Palestinians have a right to live there too and to defend themselves from attack too.

        The borders have to come down, a new South Levantine Confederation must be established with equal rights, freedom of movement, and an absolute ban on supremacism and separatism as unassailable, reparations to all war victims must be paid out of a combined fund taken from Israel, Hamas, and the Fatah, and Northern Israel which features thriving mixed demographic communities must be used as a model to integrate the rest of the new state peacefully.

    • @ChrisLicht@lemm.ee
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      The Palestinians didn’t do anything. Hamas, the chosen enemy actively propped up by Netanyahu, did something terrible.

  • Cyborganism
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    Hamas isn’t Palestine. They don’t represent the Palestinian people. It’s not because Hamas took her that she was betrayed by Palestinians.

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      The more I read the more it seem Hamas works for Bibi.

      Bibi was having a popularity problem. Now it doesn’t matter.

      The targets are mostly from the opposition to Bibi.

      This gives him the excuse he was waiting to level Gaza.

      Too many timely coincidences.

      But maybe I’m just being paranoid.

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        No I guess you’re right. I mean if they represented no one, there wouldn’t be a Hamas. But I’m fairly certain that’s a minority. The rest, the regular people, just want peace and a normal life.

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          It does not matter in this case whether they have support or not. Israel funded Hamas against the PLO, hoping to deter a two state solution by pointing to the angry Islamists they funded. Netanyahu openly said it, and bragged.

          They even assassinated other leg secular leaders. Netanyahu and the Mossad are responsible for tying the fate of the Palestinians to Hamas. And they share responsibility for the slaughter too.

    • @Elric@lemmy.world
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      They enjoy very wide support amongst the populace so they do represent many Palestinians, probably a majority?

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        Because they control the infrastructure, hospitals etc. This is the result of Israel assassinating other political leaders and funding Hamas. Netanyahu and the Mossad did it on purpose. Its their own fault.

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      Hamas was elected in 2006. The destruction of Israel was clear on its agenda. They are representing people of Gaza.

  • TinyPizza
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    This seems more like an example of wrong place wrong time because nowhere in the article does it state that they were specifically targeted. What it does say is that they lived right next to the fence and that they and their neighbors both had safe rooms. To me, when you (and your neighbors) feel the need to build a fortified room to protect yourselves during a potential attack that says this area is potentially very dangerous.

    Also, stop conflating the Palestinian people with Hamas. Not all Russians are committing war crimes in Ukraine. Not all Americans stormed the US capital on J6. Not all Saudis were on planes on 9/11. We do not need to further dehumanize ANY of the people who are now suffering through this now and the MANY who are continuing to have suffering brought upon them.

    Nobody can excuse attacks on civilian populations for revenge. This goes both ways. And whether or not this poor sweet lady and her husband are still alive, I’m sure she would be equally abhorred that her life’s work is being used as an excuse to undo the very thing she worked towards.

    Edit: I’ve been informed all homes in Israel must have safe rooms by law.

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      Israeli here:

      1. Every house in Israel has to have a safe room by law
      2. The place where she lived was close to the border but completely within Israel. It wasn’t a settlement at all.
      3. Most kibbutzim in Israel are known to be centre-left. This is well-known to anyone who even vaguely follow the Israeli media (and Hammas follow)

      Hammasb (not the Palestiniens, Hammas) knew exactly who they murder. There is no excuse to wash their hand.

  • @Lucent@lemmy.world
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    Maybe don’t vacation in or move to an occupied colonial outpost apartheid state.

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        You mean the guys who bombed women and children civilians who were evacuating to egypt via the route they told civilians to evacuate along?

        I dont think they deserve anything but sanctions and a guilty verdict for war crimes.

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          Did they? I saw a video of an explosion NEAR the border, not hitting the crowd. Is that what you’re talking about?

          There’s for sure going to be a lot of collateral damage. Hamas uses their own people as human shields.

          That’s 100 percent on Hamas and on the Palestinian people who allow it.

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            The pass to egypt? That egypt had to close, because of israeli bombings? The pass israel explicitly told palestinian refugees to use to flee to egypt?

            Hamas didnt use them as shields. Israel told them where to go to be safe, and then killed them for trusting their word.

            Thats got fuckall to do with hamas. Quit making excuses for the inhuman monsters who populate the israeli government.

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        Journalist who reported this as fact, later tweeted that they had only overheard it in a soldiers conversation.

        No evidence that this happened.

        Nice atrocity propaganda.

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          Plenty of independent reporting on this. It hasn’t been confirmed, but it definitely hasn’t been debunked either.

  • @erranto@lemmy.world
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    Being a settler in an occupied territory =/= advocating for Palestinians rights.

    So much cognitive dissonance in this world making the bad guys now the good guys.

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      The article didn’t say she was a settler in an occupied territory though, she was in a Kibbutz on the border of Gaza. The settler problem is in the West Bank. The article DID say she advocated for Palestinian rights, which I don’t understand why you’d deny unless you have some proof otherwise? Hamas killed civilians indiscriminately - they were bound to kill some very good people. I don’t understand why someone who advocated for Palestinian rights is so hard to believe. It’s just super sad.

      • @erranto@lemmy.world
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        Why should a US citizen be given the right to someones else’s land. it is a stolen land from the Palestinians. every Israeli citizens is a settler. the were given the freedom to live and buy land that used to belong to its rightful owners, while the last are being caged-in in an open air prison

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          Where do you live? Because I doubt you are the original settler of your land.

          If you’re an American (North or South), you are not responsible for the reprehensible actions of your ancestors towards the Native populations just because you now live there. Similarly with Russia, China, most of Africa, Australia, Europe… basically the entirety of the world has a history of war and settling on conquered land. And you don’t deserve death for the actions of your ancestors.

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            Typical westerner settler response.

            my ancestors have been living here for thousands of years . they went through many colonizers and we are still bitter about the ones that are left.

            death to colonialism everywhere in the world.

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      Hey, don’t question the biased media narrative or look up statistics on the number of people killed by each side and realize Israel is terrible as well. That would distract from massive military industrial complex socialism.