I’m not bothered by it at all, and I’m not at all curious about what they’re saying about me. I suppose I just trust that if someone has something to say to me, they will. But I’m coming to realize that is somewhat unusual so I am curious about what you experience if you learn about people talking about you?
Not bothered really, but curious for sure! Not in the sense that I care for their opinion, but I’m just curious.
I’ve found it’s not that common as well, most people base their decisions at least partially on what other people will think about them.