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sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated?2·56 分钟前I was sort of getting at that. The tricky part is people will almost never treat you better than 1. You treat and present yourself and 2. How you assert you are to be treated by them (that order is descending in terms of importance). Few people will treat you better than you treat yourself in a way and it sort of makes sense given our evolution and development of social groups.
You can start small tho. Try to not say sorry for anything thats not an actual sorry-worthy accident or mistake for a day. Thats it.
Check your posture by watching a youtube video and near a mirror if you can. You wanna stand tall, shoulders back, head and eyes level i think, make sure you keep your hips/torso level too, a lot of people do that silly thing where they stand at a weird angle jutting out the abdomen so they look taller or skinnier or something but its not great for your body or how you come across. Make sure to bath or shower at least once a day, twice if you can get away with it right before bedtime so it helps you get to and better sleep
When you are clean, good posture, onlynsaying sorry when its genuinely reasonable and limiting it otherwise, working on feeling you deserve and command the space you need to accomodate your presence and contribution, it will be easier for everyone and yourself to have respect and uphold your dignity without you even needing to say a word
Its just expected and commanded in a non-threatening but palpable way
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.ca•Do attractive people have better buttholes?1·2 小时前Pete Davidson said he has the asshole of a porn star because of his IBS or Chrohns or something. Do with that what you will
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.ca•Do attractive people have better buttholes?41·3 小时前I c wat u did ther
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.ca•Do attractive people have better buttholes?1·3 小时前Or lip prints
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.ca•Do attractive people have better buttholes?2·3 小时前Gotta be murder on the ol’ prostate or whatever the lady prostate is
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.ca•Do attractive people have better buttholes?1·3 小时前Twas delightful and informative 🍑
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.ca•Do attractive people have better buttholes?1·3 小时前Cant complain myself but also nothing to write home about 💅. So so more or less
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.ca•Do attractive people have better buttholes?4·5 小时前Like do they have less gastrointestinal issues and also more photogenic buttholes i guess :) lol
Why do Disney princess tales fuck up people’s marriages in terms of the expectations they set against whatbis actually realistic
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•If you argue for a cause like affordable housing for everyone, is it necessarily hypocritical if you also own investment properties?11·6 小时前I dont think this set of facts has ever aligned in the history of…forever
I feel like so much romantic and popular music is quite borderline or unhealthy.
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated?1·8 小时前Thats sort of disingenuous and also inauthentic tho. Its really not helping anyone when you affirm non-existsnt grievances
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated?2·8 小时前What would happen if you just… didnt and just did your business? Why are the apologies needed?
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated?1·8 小时前Bad habit. How come they dont apologize equally to you?
What do you think of “warm” stuff?
Can i break the 4th wall here and ask an example of what makes you so angry? Totally none of my business but do you mind for educational and relational purposes here?
When you’re angry, what general mood of music do you tend to gravitate to?
I feel like angry uptempo stuff is better for when you are not angry enough about shit. I’ve never sought angry stuff out to reinforce anger, like the anger to me has always seemed like a symptom of boundaries not being in place to prevent greater harms or annoyances
Absolutely NOT to discount anything here but thats my experience which has me curious about your position. Im interested in a general music mood theory but its tough stuff, everyone’s different and it seems challenging to universalize anything to any kind of global benefit or at least nominal effect
sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Has anyone ever noticed a connection between Mother 3 (video game) and the drug DXM?1·9 小时前I cant define or explain it. You have to listen to the Mother 3 OST. Please do that.
Then listen to it on DXM or dissociatives. I promise you will see
What do you listen to when youre mad or angry?
Instructions unclear, grassed my ass