Thanks for the reassurance and wisdom, @themeatbridge@lemmy.world. I fully admit that a large part of wanting to write is my own anxiety and feeling helpless about something that I cannot control. I also want her to press on, likely falling victim to the sunk cost fallacy (given that I’ve spent most of the childcare effort during residency and the first two years out of residency). But I’ll try to double down on my support regardless of the decision.

I take it you’ve landed on your feet after leaving medicine, albeit a bit sooner in the process than my wife?

What’s the python traceback? Can you add import os; os.getenv(“CUDA_HOME”) into the python script just to verify you’re setting correctly?