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Cake day: August 10th, 2025

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  • What in the world kind of thinking is this? Yeah, there’s a war going on and Russia is targeting civilian centers and are clearly the invading aggressor, but that is not on the same level as the full blown genocide happening in Gaza/West Bank. The fact that they could easily get into Ukraine and deliver food…means they don’t have to. What.

    There is an actual famine happening in Gaza. Starvation is being used as a weapon of war and attrition against the entire civilian population. There are only upsides to them trying this: either aid gets through and some people survive a little longer, or it doesn’t, and it proves to the entire world—that happens to be sitting on their hands over the genocide—that this is real and needs way more attention and pressure. What don’t you understand about that?






  • It isn’t just about Americans being in it though. The original black mirror had nuance and a consistent tone. I knew immediately upon finishing the first Netflix ep when there was a more cheery moral to the ending of the story. You know what the first of the original eps I watched? The Christmas special one where he’s in a time dilation prison and it ends with the time being slowed down further as the guards walk away.

    It was the spiritual successor to the twilight zone. Those stories had easily wrapped up morals to learn, sure, but they weren’t so scared to end the story on a more dark or negative tone. The American version of black mirror falls into that trap over and over again. Like they’re scared to have a negative ending, so they have to tell you, “but she’s freer in prison than she ever was on social media!” It’s almost like they’re waving their hands around after every episode saying “blaaaack mirrrorrr! Oooo!” it’s asinine





  • I guess it’s ‘good’ I can ‘change’ if I so decide? but really, change, for what?

    Read Books on ethics, not a book about whether you being rude and off putting means you’re neurodivergent.

    You don’t have to socialize. But being a decent person means sacrificing your comfort for others’ sometimes. I’m definitely a huge introvert. But just because I’d rather be alone doesn’t mean I’m an asshole to others. Some people don’t get introverts, it just doesn’t compute for them. You can choose to be an asshole to those people—they’re not doing anything to try to hurt you—or you can choose to be decent. You’re just choosing the former.





  • I’ve been accused behind my back of being manipulative, uncaring, rude, and also a sociopath. Once this impression is given, it is impossible to make people change their minds, including management. I usually don’t fight it because, really, fighting gossip? that’s sticking to 5 year old level politics and what’s the point?

    Welcome to being an adult. We all think it’s asinine. Some people get wrapped up and completely engrossed in it. They make petty office politics their entire existence. Some people play the game but only to rise through the ranks. Some people stay out of it. You don’t really fit into any of these categories, it seems. It kinda just sounds like you’re a bit of a dick. That doesn’t make you ND, some people are just kinda dicks.

    And I don’t mean that as a slight. Some of my best friends I would classify as being dicks. But it’s everything else you bring to the table that matters. Are you so good at what you do that people put up with it? Or are you just kind of a dick with no redeeming qualities?

    Finding reasons for being unlikeable or off-putting doesn’t change the fact that that’s how people see you. You don’t sound ND, you just sound like you don’t care to change. That’s different.

    It’s not impossible to make people change their minds. Just be nice. That’s all it takes. The qualities of a nice person aren’t constantly changing and impossible to follow for ND people. You’re just making excuses.