• owenfromcanada@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    According to my licensed psychiatrist, trauma is anything hurtful or harmful that impacts your behavior or patterns of thinking. The clinical term is actually more broad than the general public conception of the word.

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    10 months ago

    Tangentially related, “Cultural Appropriation” was a an anthropological/historian term that meant defining and controlling another’s culture. A good example is the English making it illegal for Scots to wear kilts in the 1700s. It is not personally using a hairstyle associated with another group despite what the term sounds like. The people that use that meaning literally culturally appropriated the term from the original group, under the real meaning of the term. People trying to tell spanish speakers that they are “Latinx” is another example of the original meaning.

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    10 months ago

    Also “Antisocial” does not mean introverted. It means to react violently to social situations.

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    10 months ago

    Would have up voted but the lack of citation and pointless censorship pushed it over for me.

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    10 months ago

    This all seems correct as far as I know, but generally speaking we should reject infographics without source info

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    10 months ago

    Would have up voted but the lack of citation and pointless censorship pushed it over for me.

  • morganth@discuss.tchncs.de
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    10 months ago

    I agree with the other three, but this is wrong about “narcissists”. “Narcissistic Personality Disorder” is a diagnosis, but calling someone a “narcissist” isn’t. That’s just a description of someone’s personality. It’s much older than the diagnosis, going back to the Greek myth of Narcissus. The diagnosis doesn’t get to co-opt the much older usage.

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      You’re not speaking ancient Greek, mate, you’re speaking English, and your use is informed by the history of the English language. The use of Nar******t in pop culture is largely informed by Christopher Lach’s 1979 book The Culture Of Narcissism, which made the argument that contemporary American culture was normalising clinical NPD. You didn’t learn to call people nar******ts by reading ancient Greek myths, and I know that for a fact because the ancient greeks didn’t go around using the word. To them, it was just some guy’s name. You learned the word from someone who learned the word from someone who learned the word from Lasch’s book, and from the ableist books that came after. Your folk etymology explanation that the pop culture use comes directly from Greek is missing a lot of important and relevant intermediate steps.

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    Well, at least people were saved from terrible tra*ma by cl*verly h*ding the “u” in “ab*sive”. Can’t tell that’s what it says at all…

    • jagungal@lemmy.world
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      10 months ago

      An alternative explanation is that sites like TikT*k are trying to please advertisers by reducing coverage of videos that talk about sensitive topics like trauma, suicide, and death, and that behaviour has been blindly copied by zoomers who are getting their primary internet exposure from Tiktok.

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      10 months ago

      Oh this word might hurt someone, lets skewer it so not only does it bring all the focus to the word itself, but forces people to think about the word specifically and how big of a deal it should be!

      Whoever did this really needs a smack upside the head

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        10 months ago

        Trigger warning: the word tra*ma

        I like to think of myself as pretty supportive, but is there really any evidence that specifically reading the word “trauma” is traumatic? And if so, is the removal of the “U” really a solution to that?

        Because it seems like asterixing one letter is more of a performative measure to signify ones support for the overall cause rather than an actually means to reduce suffering.

        How close can the “U” be before it starts to upset someone?

        “Tra u ma”

        Uuuuuuuuuuuuu Tra ma Uuuuuuuuuuuuuu

        I don’t believe that someone who is affected by the word “trauma” would view the above examples with a complete non-reaction because the U is vaguely obfuscated.

        Like, we can agree that the asterix is just a display of consideration to someone, rather than an actually effective measure, right?

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          It’s actually counterproductive! People who want to screen stuff about abuse from their internet experience can set up filters. Those filters are broken when you censor the relevant words!

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            10 months ago

            Yeah but does that matter if using the asterisk helps those not the victim of abuse feel better about their day? They are the real victims 🤣

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    10 months ago

    I’d’ve liked to see “schizophrenic,” “antisocial,” and “psychopath” among possible others, but this is indeed pretty cool.

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    10 months ago

    Dear Americans: Psychotic doesn’t mean what you think it means. Stop using it please.

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    10 months ago
    1. Take a learners dictionary and pair it with an advanced one.
    2. Pic some controversial words.
    3. Compare verbs against nouns, nouns against adjectives so the definitions aren’t actually the same but look like they should be.
    4. Completely make up the last “simple” definition so it seems like you are making some profound point that’s actually just a dumb comment.
    5. Call the side with the stupid comment you made up “pop psychology” so people can see in plain sight what gaslighting actually looks like.
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      It’s the wojack/Chad meme of “your side is represented as crying wojack, my side is represented with chiseled Chad version, therefore I win”

      And the “umm akshyully this is what gaslighting REALLY is” just makes me think someone made this whole thing just to try and prove to another person they aren’t a gaslighting narcissist who doesn’t believe someone has ptsd and has lasting issues stemming from it.

      Besides, There doesn’t have to be some elaborate ongoing scheme for something to be gaslighting.