• Nate Cox@programming.dev
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    1 year ago

    I’m the founder of my neighborhood on ND and I refuse to even download the app today for this exact reason. It started as a great way to ask about missing pets and let people know the pickup was happening, and it became an absolute cesspool.

    What ND taught me most was that people loathe and despise the homeless, they are apparently not even human beings. I assume this is because we all know deep down that we’re a missed paycheck or two away from it ourselves.

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      1 year ago

      For me it was a lot of little things that reminded me too much of Facebook. Hysterical political posts, childish name calling, and otherwise normal people becoming raving lunatics because someone’s dog was barking too much two blocks away. When I finally left there were a lot of people shame posting pictures and addresses of where people live because they didn’t like the sign they had in the yard, or thought the grass was too long. Just overall a really toxic place.

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        1 year ago

        I can tell you from experience that the moderation queue there is exactly as bad as you would think, too.

        Edit: the number of “keep” votes on outright hate speech, it baffles the mind.

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          Oh, I’m aware! I was one of the people they would ask if a post should be taken down or not. Most of the time it would be something truly vile that I would vote to remove and 8 other people would claim was just fine 😭

    • Mario_Dies.wav@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      1 year ago

      I think you’re right. Even if it’s related to addiction or some other thing, “there but for the grace of god go I” (not that I’m religious, but I like that expression)

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      1 year ago

      You saw what happened in South Park with the homeless? It’s a scary ordeal. /s