My opinion on this is the same it would be with any cis het relationship: toxic bullshit happens from all ends of the relationship spectrum, as do drama seekers. If someone started talking like this to me like it was just normal I’d rid flag tf out of it and steer clear. Your life should not resemble reality TV. That shit is exhausting.
That’s a fairly busy poly life but not weird. Totally cool to not want to be involved in it but that doesn’t read as toxic to me assuming everyone knows where they stand, well until the drama panel, but I’ve seen plenty of monogamous relationships have similar levels of drama
My opinion on this is the same it would be with any cis het relationship: toxic bullshit happens from all ends of the relationship spectrum, as do drama seekers. If someone started talking like this to me like it was just normal I’d rid flag tf out of it and steer clear. Your life should not resemble reality TV. That shit is exhausting.
That’s a fairly busy poly life but not weird. Totally cool to not want to be involved in it but that doesn’t read as toxic to me assuming everyone knows where they stand, well until the drama panel, but I’ve seen plenty of monogamous relationships have similar levels of drama