Thales@sh.itjust.works to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 个月前Wife: I'll just do it myselfsh.itjust.worksimagemessage-square30linkfedilinkarrow-up1385arrow-down123file-text
arrow-up1362arrow-down1imageWife: I'll just do it myselfsh.itjust.worksThales@sh.itjust.works to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 个月前message-square30linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-square_stranger_@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down1·1 个月前It’s never about the thing that needs to get done.
minus-squareᓚᘏᗢ@piefed.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·1 个月前It was, till it was put off and ignored so many times that it became about that instead.
minus-square_stranger_@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down2·edit-21 个月前Anyone willing and capable of doing it themselves wasn’t asking for help because they needed the help, they wanted the help, so the ask is less about the help and far more about the helping, if that makes sense.
It’s never about the thing that needs to get done.
It was, till it was put off and ignored so many times that it became about that instead.
Anyone willing and capable of doing it themselves wasn’t asking for help because they needed the help, they wanted the help, so the ask is less about the help and far more about the helping, if that makes sense.