Okay, so first off, I wanna say that I’m in a lovely relationship with “Jess” and have been for a few days. Before I dated my friend and now girlfriend Jess, though, was my ex that I posted about around 2 weeks ago: Evangelina.

Evangelina and I were going great, until she told me she needed me for something. I asked what she needed me for, and she said she was horny.

I didn’t know what to do, so I sent photos of my face and said “Here you go,” but she asked for “different photos”.

When I refused to give them to her because we’d only been dating for a few days and I’d been sexually harassed before, she said “It’s fine, I get it.” But then she blocked me??

  • Grimy@lemmy.world
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    11 days ago

    Did you meet Evangelina in person? “Only dating for a few days” and then blocking when you refuse photos makes me think you are on the younger side and this is a man trying to get photos so he can blackmail you.

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        11 days ago

        Well for what it’s worth, I think you made the right decision to not send any photos. Sounds like your ex had ulterior motives.

        I also think love is a strong word and doesn’t come about after only a few days of dating.

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        10 days ago

        An online “relationship” is not a relationship. Outside some extremely rare circumstances, romantic relationships require physical proximity to form. If you want a real girlfriend, you are going to have to meet up with them in the real world. If anyone tells you that you should adopt a strategy of messaging strangers online to have an online-only relationship as a path to romance - they are wrong and you should not listen to them.

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    11 days ago

    I would say that even if she was not this bad to you I feel like just dating for a few days is really not long enough to love someone. You can feel attraction but I would say love only comes later when you really know the person.