I’m pretty vibes based. If I have an event with polite company I’ll shave visible legs and underarms, but otherwise I can go up to two weeks without and not be too bothered by it. It really just depends on how I’m feeling on any given day. I like to keep things at least tidy for my monthly visits, but I’ll switch the style up to keep myself entertained.

I have friends that shave every day, friends that revel in not shaving all winter, and friends that have stopped shaving completely. I had a friend who dyed their underarm hair for fun back when that was more popular. Just mentioning these to showcase some more variety. Society can be really restrictive and demanding about this, but the reality is whatever works for you is valid. 💖