Why did it hurt when he said he didn’t want to talk to me?

The way he moved on so quickly and said he felt nothing for me immediately after I stopped doing as much stuff for him.

The way he was always on-and-off, like “I love you”. Then “we should break up”.

The way he would sometimes feel nothing for me even in the relationship.

He suddenly didn’t like me anymore. He wasn’t focused on a mutual, loving relationship, but more on what I could give him and do for him. He was always happy when I comforted him like I was his parent. Always happy when I did stuff for him, like make gifts, buy gifts, etc. But not once did he try to help me or do anything for me, not even like my interests or watch my movies when I did, like he said he would! Then, he suddenly didn’t like me and we broke it off.

Now, his bio says “A owns me”, but when I ask him about it, he says that it’s “some dumb quote he found”.

  • Twinklebreeze @lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Get some distance. You shouldn’t be looking at his profile or trying to talk to him right now. Move on. Block him if you have to. There’s nothing there for you but hurt.

  • 0x01@lemmy.ml
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    2 days ago

    Breaking up is painful, you’re losing one of the closest relationships in life. It’s okay to mourn, it’s okay to be sad and cry about it, embrace the good and the bad.