• fireweed@lemmy.world
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    16 hours ago

    It’s difficult being a millennial and trying to confront the nostalgic feeling (that naturally comes with aging) that “things were better in my youth,” because things objectively were better in my youth.

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      14 hours ago

      I dunno, I hear stories from my coworkers about how bad East Germany and other former Soviet states were in the 80s/90s. It depends a lot on where you were fortunate enough to grow up.

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      10 hours ago

      Idk, I wanted to kill myself as a kid and don’t now. So personally, the world seems pretty okay to me.

    • ThePantser@sh.itjust.works
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      16 hours ago

      Also ignorance is bliss and as kids we didn’t give a shit about politics. But in this instance things were 100% better no doubt.

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      14 hours ago

      I dunno man, there was an atomic cloud over Europe from a reactor meltdown which meant we couldn’t go outside when I was a kid.

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    14 hours ago

    70s and 80s too

    this is happening to everyone.

    Just imagine living in Ukraine or Iran…at any age right now.

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      Oh man I’d prefer to not compare myself or my problems to active war zones. Lifes rough no matter the place but I have plenty of opportunity to make good on it. That may or may not be the case for folks in Ukraine or Iran… and then I think of Pakistan…fuck

      Edit: fat finger spelling

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    I am comfortable with the knowledge that I spent the best years of my life in the '90s. The music, the clothes, the general vibe, the prices… The few wars of the era look like kids playing Risk compared to what’s brewing now.

    The lifestyle and material conditions enabled by a century and a half of fossil fuels are coming to a close.

    It will only get worse from here. There is no recovery.

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    18 hours ago

    I, for one, feel a lot less crazy now that people are seeing what I have been seeing for a long time. I hear about it more even from old folks, my in laws now ask more questions as do my own parents. That gives me a lot of hope. Change is inevitable.

    • allidoislietomyself@lemmy.world
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      13 hours ago

      Same here. I’ve been saying for 25 years that the right wing Christian clowns were going to ruin this country and eventually the world. At the time my folks, family and friends all thought I was just some conspiracy nut.

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    The world’s healing progresses much more slowly than the individual’s. We have hundreds of years of colonialism and ecological devastation to heal from and that shit won’t happen overnight. You are part of the world and your healing makes the world better. Focus on what you can do and do that. Trying to take responsibility for the whole mess will destroy you, it’s out of your hands.

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      Right, and this is just one of those times where the scab was itchy so we scratched it off. We re-opened the gouge and are bleeding again. The question is whether the healing is still happening, with a little backtracking, or whether we’re exposing ourselves to gangrene

    • CalipherJones@lemmy.world
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      12 hours ago

      I genuinely believe there is 0 chance we will ever heal the earth. Collapse of Earths natural systems seem inevitable.

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        You don’t heal the earth. It’s like meditation, you don’t force the mindset, the mindset comes to you and you can’t control it, but you can learn to respect it for what it is.

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        The Earth is huge and doesn’t really care about us. We disappear, in a hundred years nothing’s left except some exotic isotopes in a thin geological layer.

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      11 hours ago

      That’s not mutually exclusive with frustration at the world falling apart around us.

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      Correct. And I weep about it almost every day. One, because I miss it (and my youth), and two, because I look at kids today and it can’t be fun.

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      I had ten years more WW3 is about to happen at any time than you did. We saw Northern Ireland become a peaceful place after such a long time like a war zone, the Middle East calmed down after always being a warzone somewhere or other. We watched the Berlin Wall come down in ’89 with such optimism, the USSR broke up peacefully and Europe started to be a more interesting place, now these borders with Russia are bloody dangerous. Somehow there’s a new and improved ‘Cold War’ that isn’t actually a secret at all, a real war hiding behind words like conflict, the holy lands are all to hell again, my god we are useless at this peace thing - the rich twats just can’t make enough money unless we’re all suffering obviously.

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    “I wish that none of this had happened”

    “so do all who live too see such times, but that is not for them to decide. all we have to decide, is what to do with the time that is given to us.”

    as hard as it to reconcile with the world disintegrating when you’re coming together as a person (I’m in the same boat) I find the above quote gives me some courage to accept such a condition and to act steadfastly instead, as a testament that life is worth living and fighting for

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      Gandalf’s line is probably my favorite from the book. You can only control what you can control. Do what you can, and know at the end of the day that you did your best, regardless of the outcome.