I (37F) have a daughter, Emma (14F). Emma currently likes a guy, Andrew (15M). Andrew likes her too.

Emma quickly became good friends with a girl named Olivia (Liv) (14F) and we tried to arrange a hangout with her and her Mom.

Emma asked me if she could bring Andrew, so I said that we would have to check with Liv’s Mom. She said no because guys can’t hang out with Liv and shouldn’t with Emma either. That in itself was fine, but she also said that Andrew would r*pe Emma and Liv. Because he would somehow do so in a public place. Saying this without even knowing the guy.

Liv’s mom got upset with Emma for suggesting such a thing. Emma was upset, and so was I. I understand not wanting guys over, but it’s unlikely Andrew would sexually assault/harass people in a public place. We are better safe than sorry, but I know Andrew and he does not seem to have any weird intentions with Emma.

We will definitely not invite him over, though, for their safety(?) and comfort.