(I have no idea where to post this).

Anyway, I’ve (24F) posted a lot about my 14-year-old sister Lena, who has a boyfriend (16) Dominic.

Sometime in around seventh grade, Lena had some sort of school group who she would call, Kate and Diane (13 —-> 14). Kate had this one friend who attended the calls, Dominic. Lena decided to privately message Dominic on Discord. They called, saw each other’s faces, and exchanged numbers. Soon, Dominic became rather close with Lena.

When Lena and Dominic were still friends, Lena was his best friend and he was dating this girl Sierra (16) who he loved very much. They started dating a few months after Sierra broke up with him.

One of Lena’s other friends, a 9th grader, has faced trauma from men (Emily, 14F). Because of this, she is not allowed to hang out with guys under any circumstances. Emily’s mom got mad at me when I was coming up with a plan for Lena to meet up with Dominic and have our dad agree to it. Emily’s mom said our dad was smart, because Lena is impressionable and could be r*ped.

I find it odd that many people seem to believe Lena will be r*ped by a guy during public events (in his bedroom would be different), but Lena could also continue to call Dominic and wait a few years to meet up for real.

I could also talk to my mother about it, my dad didn’t let me date a guy I liked when I was 13, but mom let me visit with a lie that I was visiting a girl friend.