Just a fun little ice breaker (selfishly so for my sake)
What’s your biggest kink (or current kink), and whats one you just dont understand how people are into it? On the complete opposite side, what’s something that would immediately make you walk away from an encounter?
For me, I’m currently really into breeding. Every single bent over breeding post has me so ready to bust.
On the other hand, I still can’t for the life of me get into feet. I’ve tried. I really have. They don’t actually disgust me, but it doesn’t click for me. They’re just there. Fun for tickling and nice to be kind and massage, but that’s all.
What turns me off? Well honestly not much, but I think sounding would literally kill me. Please don’t stick anything up there or even play around. Ouch
Can I start by commenting on your post first? You give a lot to start the conversation.
Feet. It’s not a kink, per se, to me, but I had a girlfriend give me a foot job, unprompted and it was an amazing experience. First was the distance between us. I couldn’t exactly reach her - besides her feet - so all that was left was eye contact, verbal communication and body language. Second it was the mechanics of the act itself; it takes dexterity. Third, it was the act itself: it is unusual, it is awkward but it can become really fun. Fourth, it is the skin texture. No amount of foot cream can make feet as soft as hands. She skin is thicker, denser. All together, makes for a fun experience. It’s not really about the feet, in my view, but still.
Breeding… been there, done that. Touches very basic and primal instincts. Can be really fun, if people trust each other.
Now for me…
Current kinks. I really can’t put a finger on it. Pornography stopped working for me a long time ago. I still enjoy erotica, though.
What just cuts me off is age gap and degradation.
I super appreciate your response, I’ve asked a few people in the past and I’ve never got as good as an explanation as that. I think it’s made me realize I’ve moved into being down for a foot job, but still don’t find feet enticing.
Erotica works for me, depending on how it’s written. I’ve read some reaaally bad posts before on reddit. Genuine creeps, not just your good ol fashion perv like me haha
Age gap as in illegal? Or just like 20yr old w/ a 50yr old? The former definitely not. That’s gross. But I’m kinda okay with the latter. Really depends.