You’re not hitting on her. You were being helpful. Nowwww… If you continued and followed up multiple times, then yes. Harassment. But if you left it like this, you’re just a nice guy.
That’s the problem though. I was drunk at the time and can’t properly remember what I said fully. It is well within reason I was too insistent or said it weirdly, given that I have 0 social awareness
Oh well. Guess I’ll continue to let it be my thought demon for the next decade or so
Please try not to overthink it. This lady had every opportunity to walk away but enjoyed your company.
As long as you’re not grabby/feelie you’re good.
I’m a very social person that works in marketing. My job works directly with engineers with 0 social skills and we are close enough that they express the same type of concerns as you.
Again, don’t overthink it. Unless you’re a superior, your coworker can leave your presence at anytime b
You’re not hitting on her. You were being helpful. Nowwww… If you continued and followed up multiple times, then yes. Harassment. But if you left it like this, you’re just a nice guy.
That’s the problem though. I was drunk at the time and can’t properly remember what I said fully. It is well within reason I was too insistent or said it weirdly, given that I have 0 social awareness
Oh well. Guess I’ll continue to let it be my thought demon for the next decade or so
Please try not to overthink it. This lady had every opportunity to walk away but enjoyed your company.
As long as you’re not grabby/feelie you’re good.
I’m a very social person that works in marketing. My job works directly with engineers with 0 social skills and we are close enough that they express the same type of concerns as you.
Again, don’t overthink it. Unless you’re a superior, your coworker can leave your presence at anytime b
You were drunk and might’ve just been repeating yourself in general