Based on your age I’d guess you have different opinions but what’s your thoughts on women in their 40’s? Would you date one? Sleep with one? What attitude do you expect them to have in bed etc.

I’m a 40yo mother of 2 who has recently become single again. I’m hesitant to get back on the dating/hookup scene. But if anyone does want to chat then my messages are open.

  • shalafi@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    13 days ago

    54 here. 40s are peak womanhood for many. 50s women can be crazy hot, but it’s far more rare. In either case, they’re mature women who tend to know what they want. OTOH, we all have baggage by middle age, so there’s that.

    • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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      13 days ago

      I am closer to your age and agree. I still run hot, like it’s always simmering but 45 was my vampire age, the age I would have kept if at all possible. Even though I feel physically a little better now, like healthier, that intense sex drive and also just a little too skinny fits my preferences for myself and I did feel really good overall.