Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to me_irl@lemmy.worldEnglish · 17 days agoMe_irllazysoci.alimagemessage-square22linkfedilinkarrow-up1449arrow-down18
arrow-up1441arrow-down1imageMe_irllazysoci.alLady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to me_irl@lemmy.worldEnglish · 17 days agomessage-square22linkfedilink
minus-squareMrScottyTay@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up13·17 days agoThat’s like the humble brag of toxic traits “My issue is i care about other people’s feelings”
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up7·17 days agoIt’s pretty toxic to be too shy for self care. A la The Giving Tree. That tree had issues.
minus-squareMrScottyTay@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5·17 days agoNot on this level though, this is like the nice version of a white little white lie. Except instead of being an inconsequential amount of deception, it’s making someone else feel better about themselves on a regular basis.
That’s like the humble brag of toxic traits
“My issue is i care about other people’s feelings”
It’s pretty toxic to be too shy for self care. A la The Giving Tree. That tree had issues.
Not on this level though, this is like the nice version of a white little white lie. Except instead of being an inconsequential amount of deception, it’s making someone else feel better about themselves on a regular basis.