• WideEyedStupid@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    I’m very intolerant of behavior that tells me type of people they are. For example throwing garbage on the floor, or being unkind to serving staff, or something like that. Red flags for sure.

    And of course there’s the obvious stuff that is an instant deal breaker, like bigotry, being anti-vax, hating cats (or animals in general), right-wing politics, etc.

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      4 days ago

      Not returning a shopping cart to the cart corral is an interesting litmus test to see how decent people can be. At least for me.

      “That’s what they get paid to do.” Nah that doesn’t sit well with me. Being a lazy dick is not attractive.

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        3 days ago

        Oh that’s a good one, yes. It’s something that costs you time and you get absolutely nothing in return.

        Another one would be how they leave their (public) toilets behind. “That’s what cleaners are paid for.” No fuck off. – Though of course this one would be a little harder to actually witness. ;)