• mosiacmango@lemm.ee
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    23
    arrow-down
    9
    ·
    edit-2
    21 hours ago

    At the same time, lots of men are really shitty when they “approach” women.

    “Don’t approach us” is a response to men’s behaviour, not the other way around.

      • mosiacmango@lemm.ee
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        7
        arrow-down
        16
        ·
        edit-2
        20 hours ago

        Very incel-y, but sure.

        Or, you could take it as a statement with the subtext that it clearly has, which is “dont approach us if youre going to be an asshole.”

        If you would rather stew in bitterness than adjust to the above, the first option is likely better for everyone.

        • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          15
          arrow-down
          6
          ·
          20 hours ago

          I think if women meant that they would say it instead of “never approach women”

          Blaming men for listening to women is some new level of crazy

          • ExtantHuman@lemm.ee
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            2
            arrow-down
            2
            ·
            6 hours ago

            Your inability to understand nuance might be part of the problem. Having to explain every single exception spelled out literally takes too long to get the guy acting creepy away from them.

            • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              2
              arrow-down
              2
              ·
              6 hours ago

              You haven’t explained anything, you just keep shitting out the same response hoping you’ll shame me into going away.

              • 0xD@infosec.pub
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                3
                arrow-down
                2
                ·
                edit-2
                5 hours ago

                Yeah, because you’re drowning in self-pity instead of understanding that men are the problem in the vast majority of cases. You’re bitching around instead, that’s typical incel behavior.

                You can go up to a woman and flirt with her - just don’t be an asshole and accept a “no” without crying or further harassing her ;) It’s really not hard. Most appreciate it.

          • mosiacmango@lemm.ee
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            7
            arrow-down
            9
            ·
            edit-2
            18 hours ago

            So option 1 I guess.

            Way to be mad at 4 billion people because you dont want to be a decent human being.