Honestly I’m starting to feel like I have nothing to offer. Everyone always asks what I bring to the table. When both people are working what exactly do you want me to bring to the table?
You either find something you like in me (like my mentality, personality, appearance) or you don’t, I don’t get it.
Do you want me to slave away for you or something? Also I’m pretty introverted so I cant offer you social ties or community for the most part. Guess I’m useless.
I genuinely don’t feel like most people are THAT special. Like most people aren’t rocket scientists who also have 59 obscure hobbies and write dissertations in their spare time. Wtf do people want? A positive outlook?
Ok I have a positive outlook to offer you. They’re gonna laugh in my face when I say that. Oh I’m also quirky by the way. Not like the other girls. Teehee.
Honestly anyone asking you what you bring to the table in a relationship is not worth your time.
It should be obvious what you bring to the table, your good looks, your incredible personality, your humour, the way you present yourself.
If they can’t see it for themselves, that’s their loss.
Don’t take it personally, not everyone needs to be a good fit for everyone else, but if they don’t know what you bring to the table, that’s a failure on their part to recognise you, not any problem with you.
Right? Like if you don’t like me you can leave sir, please do actually