I’m attracted to very few women, if at all, but I’ve been saying I’m a lesbian/bi.
Welcome, fellow lesbians. And is anyone here attracted to men like I am?
I’m attracted to very few women, if at all, but I’ve been saying I’m a lesbian/bi.
Welcome, fellow lesbians. And is anyone here attracted to men like I am?
first of all i would just like to say that everybody is welcome here, as long as they act respectfully.
second, anybody who tried to define another persons queer experience and tell them they have to be a part of some orientation is not welcome here. only you get to define what you are,
as for me, i consider myself a lesbian, although i suppose there is the possibility i could find myself attracted to a man, and enbys are normally an option for me. i say this because when i think about all the men i have ever met,and i dont want to be in a relationship with a single one of them, the only men i can think of that i would want to be with romantically are fictional, in theory im attracted to men, but i have never had it proven to me in the wild.
where as on the other hand, i cant get enough of women. i think about them constantly, they give me all the wonderful weird feelings, and even if i dont personally think i would be a good fit with some, i can totally see why some people would fall for them. however thats rare because i crush on so many girls. basically the total opposite of how i view men romantically.
this is me with women too!! (though i would date enbies, and i may date men if i meet the right one but so far i am not attracted to them and my male exes have been negligent/cheating assholes so… which is not to say they all are, but still.)