• 2ugly2live@lemmy.world
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    3 hours ago

    I know it’s probably fake, but I low key think this is the experience of most women, online or not. Men like to think women can just ring a bell and get dick and companionship, judging off of, like, the cream of the crop of women and their (apparent) track record. It’s not always that easy, especially if you aren’t attractive. A lot of men don’t fuck for personality.

    Obligatory not all men, yes there are shallow women, and yes it is also hard for men to find partners, and yes they have their own struggles and pressures that make their struggle unique to them.

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      2 hours ago

      I mean, they probably could, but what’s available to them isn’t exactly the cream of the crop either.

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        38 minutes ago

        I imagine it’s similar to the gay male experience - I could get a hookup any time of day easily, but the guys aren’t relationship material.