• tomi000@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    I donno, Ive had this kind of ‘fight’ with my now wife pretty often. Im 30 now. She would ignore me or ‘make it obvious’ shes angry and I would go about my day. I told her again and again that I wouldnt play these stupid games and eventually she started discussing with me when she has a problem with something. She got it from her mother, thats how they dealt with problems in her family.

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      5 days ago

      Good job. I think that talking things out is always better than the “silent treatment”, which just builds resentment on both sides.