There are people all over the spectrum. I find anal with my wife to be super hot. She orgasms really hard from anal. That isn’t the case with everyone. Honestly, if she didn’t love it, it wouldn’t be super high on my list. I get off by getting her off.

Being willing to try new things is admirable and sexy, but so is someone who has boundaries that they can openly and proudly share.

Let a thousand flowers bloom. Everyone’s preferences with a consenting adult are valid and appropriate.