• Madison420@lemmy.world
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      16 hours ago

      How could they be wrong? They apologized and explained that it isn’t intentional and why. What exactly do you need to be happy here, seppuku?

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        16 hours ago

        They didn’t apologize, they doubled down with some of the most insipid bullshit about pronouns not existing in English and how they’re “depronouning english”, despite defaulting to using the masculine, instead of just saying “oh yeah, I didn’t see the name, I’ll edit my comment”.

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          16 hours ago

          An appology doesn’t have to say sorry if they aren’t sorry dude. They explained it and hilariously the person minging about it the most immediately assumed the person you’re mad at’s gender which is just hilariously hypocritical.

          oh yeah, I didn’t see the name, I’ll edit it my comment".

          That’s literally what they said minus I’ll edit my comment. So what’s the benefit of editing the comment? Will it reverse time or remove context so you not rose will be less offended.

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            16 hours ago

            An apology does have to say sorry or it’s just an explanation. If they aren’t sorry, they’re not apologising, they’re just telling you what happened in a way that takes 0 responsibility.

            I know all I need to about you from this one simple statement and now realise you’ll be too pig headed to approach this in any way other than antagonistically in a desperate attempt to browbeat the other person into submission. Because for you, it’s not about reaching consensus, it’s about your own ego.

            You do you bro, I don’t care enough about anyone in this debate to bother responding anymore. Peace.

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              15 hours ago

              No that can be an apology, it however isn’t the only way to apologize.

              You know dictionaries? Try one.

              something that is said or written to defend something that other people criticize

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                12 hours ago

                I wonder how long you had to scroll to find that one. Taking an overly literal definition instead of understanding the context and spirit of what an apology is: the last bastion of the guy who cares more about winning than being right.

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                  8 hours ago

                  It’s the second definition online for me so exactly one.

                  The spirit of apology is not saying sorry dude. You don’t need it anyway and she didn’t ask for it. You’re the weird demanding one.

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                    7 hours ago

                    It’s the second definition online for me

                    Which means you intentionally scrolled past the most common definition which requires you to be sorry because it proved you wrong.

                    The spirit of apology is not saying sorry dude.

                    Good luck being single the rest of your life lol