• @BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world
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    12 days ago

    One of the biggest and most terrible things that ever happened to my province, which CONSUMED everything for a long time back when I was a teenager and people still talk about very passionately to this day, well meeting someone who has NO idea what this is makes me feel old.

  • @RBWells@lemmy.world
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    173 days ago

    I find it takes much, much longer to heal from injury. That’s the main downside I’ve experienced. When I say longer - when about 8 yo I broke my arm, it took 5-6 weeks to heal, maybe 10 to really heal, stop swelling ever and feel exactly like the other. When about 45 I broke my finger and it took 2 years to fully heal and feel like the rest of them.

    But it also takes longer to get mad, I’m less irritable, more perspective I guess. Easier to feel happy/satisfied, too, it’s closer to the surface now.

  • SanguinePar
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    354 days ago

    You start correcting people when they say “your” instead of “you’re” :-)

  • Mister Neon
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    314 days ago

    I don’t heal as fast anymore. Cuts and scrapes turn into scars easier.

  • @klemptor@startrek.website
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    254 days ago

    Vision. It gets hard to read in low light, driving at night is tough, you can’t quite figure out how close or far to hold a book or phone.

    Alcohol. You just don’t shake it off like you did when you were younger. Now you really think about whether that next drink will be worth the shitty sleep.

    Money. You talk about property taxes and 401k contributions more often than you ever thought you would.

    Patience. You’re more patient with kids and your parents, and way less patient with everything else.

    • @thegreatgarbo@lemmy.world
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      43 days ago

      Memory and visual attention when you get closer to 60. You can’t remember all 10 digits of a new phone number with an unfamiliar area code; often one of the 4 last numbers will end up transposed with a neighbor. Visual attention: looking on your garage shelves or cupboards for an item and not seeing it even though it’s in plain sight.

      • dustycups
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        83 days ago

        0118 999 881 999 119 725 3
        and my own phone number, nothing else.

      • @faercol@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        12 days ago

        Is it not normal? This describes me perfectly and I’m not even 30 yet. (Well in a few months I won’t be able to say that anymore, but still)

  • HubertManne
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    244 days ago

    definately physical pain on stuff you used to do on the regular. Had a job were I would get impatient waiting for a delivery and would jump off the dock to go check if I could see the truck. A little after I got into my thirties I jumped off one day and just stopped and stood still in a crouched position for a bit. I never “felt” the landing like I did that day before. It was the sart of what would be a long line of things I would cease to do.

  • @Skanky@lemmy.world
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    63 days ago

    Your perception and outlook on time changes a lot.

    Everything seems to go by faster. Waiting for something doesn’t seem that bad when it’s in terms of days instead of hours, weeks instead of days, months instead of weeks, years instead of months.

    When making long term plans, “how long you think you’ll live” becomes more and more of a factor.