• @gedaliyah@lemmy.worldM
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    105 months ago

    What are you talking about? Teens undergo life changing surgery all the time, whether it is for a sports injury, to correct scoliosis, oral surgery, etc.

    • @Frokke
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      -75 months ago

      True. And how do those differ from trans care?

        • @Frokke
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          -135 months ago

          No sweetie, those can be diagnosed through imaging and completed without the patient saying one word.

          Trans care is a dialog.

          Nice try, better luck next time?

          • @gedaliyah@lemmy.worldM
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            75 months ago

            You’re stretching even further now. Most medical care is based on a patient telling a doctor what is bothering them. There’s allergies, soft tissue injuries, psychological needs, sleep disorders, digestive problems, eating disorders,learning disabilities, etc. etc. etc.

            Teens shouldn’t be allowed treatment for any of those? Or will you keep drawing more and more granular distinctions to fit your conclusion?

            Let’s just take an example that fits your definition: bariatric surgery is 1) surgical 2) not determined by imaging 3) undergone only in consultation with the patient 4) undergone only alongside psychological and lifestyle support 5) related to future health outcomes 6) related to the patient’s body image 7) sometimes appropriate in teens/adolescents 8) requires lifelong lifestyle changes 9) not related to an accute injury or illness 10) it is not an urgent lifesaving procedure

            It is in every way exactly like gender affirming care except not being related to gender.

            So surely you would argue that bariatric surgery should be banned for teens, based on your position. Their brains are still developing so they cannot possibly make such a decision that will impact the rest of their lives. If they still feel like they need it when they are adults, then they can do it then.

            Right?

            • @Breezy@lemmy.world
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              05 months ago

              I gotta say, bariatric surgery sounds pretty bad after googleing it. Its no where near like trans surgery. Though, I personally think both should be banned for minors. I am of the mind that such life altering changes should only be made once someone is of a certian age to be fully responsible.

              I do not have faith in teenagers or even young adults to know how to best handle their life when they are so young. Im in my thirties and i barely believe i make the best decision for my own life.

              My concern are for the ones who will ultimately regret having made the decision to transition. There just should be a limit to any body modification for minors.

              • @gedaliyah@lemmy.worldM
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                45 months ago

                Here is where we differ: I believe that the very smart people who go to school to study these exact issues for many years, practice for decades, review one another’s work, and spend a lifetime studying the outcomes of the surgeries are in the best place to decide what should and shouldn’t be allowed.

                If an individual, their family, and an entire team of doctors determine that something is safe and advisable, I trust that decision much more than my uneducated feelings.

                • @Breezy@lemmy.world
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                  Yeah i agree, im not whole sale against it. But you talk of these highly educated people making these decisions. What about all the morally corrupt parts of life where this can, and i bet is, being abused for nefarious reason.

                  I just think all major decisions like these should only be made once someone is of age. That way if they were wrong it couldn’t be held against anyone in a future lawsuit./s

                  • @gedaliyah@lemmy.worldM
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                    35 months ago

                    When a decision is made to perform surgery on a minor, it is always because doctors have determined that it is more dangerous to wait.

                    I’m not even going to address the completely unfounded claim of some nefarious cabal of doctors.

            • @Frokke
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              -15 months ago

              Removed by mod

              • @gedaliyah@lemmy.worldM
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                25 months ago

                You have not been banned for your opinions, but for your conduct. Saying deliberately shocking or offensive things to “gauge the mindset of a community” is trolling, and is not allowed here. I hope that after taking a short break from the community you can return to engage more authentically. Please feel free to PM myself or another mod if you have any questions in the meantime.

            • @Frokke
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              -85 months ago

              Funny how you assume I want to ban it. Seems like a common trend. In which you are identical to the frequenters of r/the_donald. If I don’t flatout agree with you, I must heavily oppose you.

              Didn’t you get the “trans care is a dialog” part? I mean I would love to see your reasoning in how that can be viewed as wanting to ban it. I always love a good show of mental gymnastics.

          • knightly the Sneptaur
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            25 months ago

            Ah, yes. Because doing surgeries “without the patient saying one word” to consent to them is great for regret rates. XD

            • @Frokke
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              I guess you missed the important part. And focussed only on the irrelevant part. Didn’t expect anything else tbh.

          • @BigMacHole@lemm.ee
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            05 months ago

            This is EXACTLY how it goes! A teen walks into a Doctor’s office and says “I’M TRANS!” and the Doctor gets their Scissor and cuts off their Penis without ANY TESTING or THERAPY or TRANSITIONAL PERIODS whatsoever!