Does anyone else vacillate between feeling hot (attractive) and repellant?
Some days I feel like all the women around me find me desirable, and other days I feel like none of them do. I rarely feel ‘in between’.
I don’t really like feeling either extreme. For one thing, I don’t trust either feeling! Feeling unattractive is obviously a bad feeling, but feeling ultra attractive is also bad. It leads me to uncomfortable fantasies and an inability to distinguish normal interactions from flirtation.
Does anyone else feel like this?
I definitely notice that depending on how I’m dressed women will or won’t look at me or choose to stand next to me out in public. I’ve got a jacket that I’m not sure what it signals, but it causes women to much more frequently stand beside me when waiting for the train.