@Adn@lemmy.today to askmenover30@lemm.ee • 9 months agoMen who have been married for many years, what do you think are the biggest mistakes men make in relationships that should be avoided?message-square44fedilinkarrow-up144arrow-down13
arrow-up141arrow-down1message-squareMen who have been married for many years, what do you think are the biggest mistakes men make in relationships that should be avoided?@Adn@lemmy.today to askmenover30@lemm.ee • 9 months agomessage-square44fedilink
minus-squareScratchlinkfedilinkEnglish21•9 months agoBecome a feminist. It doesn’t mean you kowtow to every whim and women are always right and better than you. It means you take your fair share of running the household and the relationship. Read this; https://amp.theguardian.com/world/2017/may/26/gender-wars-household-chores-comic Learn about the Second Shift and Mental Load. Together, make a job board of things that need to be done around the house and divvy up work. If one partner knows how to do a housekeeping task, they other should know too.
Become a feminist. It doesn’t mean you kowtow to every whim and women are always right and better than you. It means you take your fair share of running the household and the relationship.
Read this; https://amp.theguardian.com/world/2017/may/26/gender-wars-household-chores-comic
Learn about the Second Shift and Mental Load. Together, make a job board of things that need to be done around the house and divvy up work.
If one partner knows how to do a housekeeping task, they other should know too.