I’m on my mobile so it’s difficult to tell as the instances list is so large on feddit.nl, but I don’t think your instance is blocking hexbear. It looks like hexbear has an allowed list of instances and it’s not a large list.
The best bet would be to create an account on hexbear if you want to follow it closely, but keep your existing account.
I don’t want to follow closely, just occasionally dive in for fun perspective spectating. But maybe you’re on the right path with the Hexbear allow list. I should see if I can get Hexbear to allow feddit.nl.
I’m on my mobile so it’s difficult to tell as the instances list is so large on feddit.nl, but I don’t think your instance is blocking hexbear. It looks like hexbear has an allowed list of instances and it’s not a large list.
The best bet would be to create an account on hexbear if you want to follow it closely, but keep your existing account.
I don’t want to follow closely, just occasionally dive in for fun perspective spectating. But maybe you’re on the right path with the Hexbear allow list. I should see if I can get Hexbear to allow feddit.nl.