- becoming (financially) independant of abusive narc parent
- own job and benefits/pension
- own bills and own (no goddamn roomates) place to live
- own pets they have zero fucking say in whether i can keep for the rest of our lives regardless of if they wanna move one of their loser kids they pretend have allergies into muh space which they cant do lol
Nothing. Nothing I’ve done counts, I’m in my mid 30s, and still living with my family, I can’t drive and only have temporary jobs, I don’t have education or desire to learn. I’ll never get companionship or kids. And most likely die alone without leaving anything. Never had sex or being loved or desired by the opposite sex so even that can’t be reached.