• @wise_pancake@lemmy.ca
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    You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink.

    What’s weird about this broader “conversation” on masculinity is I feel more masculine than ever, despite not giving a flying fuck about any of this.

    I never really struggled with it except as a teen, but the older I get the less I care.

    I still say we made a mistake with communicating to men about feminism. We kind of left people who are terrible like Andrew Tate to dominate the conversation when people shut down men’s rights groups as de facto misogynistic, and now here we are.

    • @hank_the_tank66@lemmy.world
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      What’s weird about this broader “conversation” on masculinity is I feel more masculine than ever

      Same. The more I read stupid quotes from the Tates and Musk’s of the world, the more I feel like I’m doing something right with how I’m living my life, raising my kiddo, and engaging with my community.

      Between that and a wider understanding/acceptance of neurodivergence, I’m feeling pretty comfortable in my own skin for the first time in a long time. And I’m ready to fight for women, minorities, and the LGBTQ+ communities to feel the same way.