No gf, no friends, it’s hard to meet new people. Tinder and other apps don’t work. Idk even if I travel somewhere I’m alone

  • @OmegaLemmy@discuss.online
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    24 days ago

    Where do I find clubs? Been searching for an answer ever since the library in my city didn’t even have a bulletin board

    • @Anatares@lemmynsfw.com
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      3 days ago

      Rural US will be a shitshow for it.

      There should be one in most places people congregate for fun: rock gyms, state parks/NF orgs, community centers, sewing/hobby stores, sorts leagues, idk… Can’t hurt to literally call around. It’s super awkward but “hi i have an interest in this and want to know how i can get involved” usually has two possible answers: “Idk”, or “OH YEAH! Check out these resources!”

      You can also try community colleges and sometimes universities. Clubs may be open to the public.

    • @gibmiser@lemmy.world
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      14 days ago

      That requires a highly regional specific answer. I could give a dozen answers, but did you ask the librarian for help? In the US a librarian should be able to help you figure it out for your city.