• bizarroland
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    342 months ago

    Honestly it kind of sucks.

    I always wanted a kid but it requires a partner who is able to be a parent and I have never had such a partner.

    I had a pretty fucked up childhood and I wanted someone who could be a good mother to a child and everyone I’ve dated who had the ability to be a good mother was not capable of giving birth for one reason or another and everyone I’ve dated who’s capable of giving birth was not capable of being a good mother for one reason or another.

    I know it’s not too late for me but it’s getting pretty damn close.

      • @AbeilleVegane@beehaw.org
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        22 months ago

        Where I live you pretty much cannot adopt if you’re past 40, except when someone put their kid in their last will for you.