• @cybervseas@lemmy.world
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    12 hours ago

    Why do they have to be this way? What happened to these Republicans? Are they genuinely held beliefs or is it all just opportunism?

    ETA: does it matter? 🙁

    • @acosmichippo@lemmy.world
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      12 hours ago

      I’m not a psychologist but there has to be some deep-seated self-loathing from repressing their true sexuality/identity for decades. Or maybe they subconsciously feel “if I can’t be who I want to be, you can’t either.”

      • @Samvega@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        10 hours ago

        I am a Psychologist. They gain status from being assholes, because enough people privilege assholes with status. Authoritarianism requires an outgroup to oppress, and people think that hostility and oppression is ‘strength’. The original theory (which is not entirely supported by evidence) of the Authoritarian Personality is based on Freud, and it says that a similar family dynamic of a powerful father who arbitrarily abuses and oppresses others is the basis.

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Authoritarian_personality

      • @JTskulk@lemmy.world
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        I’ve got a theory on this: They have gay urges and therefor think everyone has them, so they believe that everyone needs to “choose to be straight” and it’s just weak sinners who are giving into their urges.

        Also to grandparent: it’s allllllll projection with conservatives.

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          Not every repressed gay person is a cunt. Not every cunt is a repressed gay person.

          But some of these aggresively anti-LGBT+ cunts sure look like they’re in the intersection.

          Edit: IDK if the phrasing “repressed gay” works in English? If it’s wrong, let me know

          • @TrousersMcPants@lemmy.world
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            Repressed gay works just fine tbh, most people probably use “closeted” but that’s more colloquial.

            However, referring to a gay person as a “gay” can be a bit problematic as it strips their personhood from the statement. A lot of bigots will refer to gay people that way to imply they are lesser. I dunno if that’s how it works in other languages, but at least in English it’s generally more respectful to refer to groups as people specifically. So you’d always say “gay people” or “black people” and etc.

            • @luciferofastora@lemmy.zip
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              Fixed that then. I chose repressed over closeted, as I feel it emphasises the point that they’re pushing themselves deeper into the closet, but maybe that’s a linguistic nuance I’m misunderstanding.