The Picard Maneuver to Memes@sopuli.xyz • 2 months agoSorry to be a bother...lemmy.worldimagemessage-square135fedilinkarrow-up11.03Karrow-down116
arrow-up11.02Karrow-down1imageSorry to be a bother...lemmy.worldThe Picard Maneuver to Memes@sopuli.xyz • 2 months agomessage-square135fedilink
minus-square@exanime@lemmy.worldlinkfedilink6•2 months agoYou don’t think people would go “aww how come you are down? Let me cheer you up”?
minus-square@Psychodelic@lemmy.worldlinkfedilink1•2 months agoIt’s worth realizing some people do not want to be cheered up. My understanding is the misery, for lack of a better word, is more comforting to many as it reminds them of when they were young (or they emulate what they saw around them as children)
minus-square@exanime@lemmy.worldlinkfedilink3•2 months ago It’s worth realizing some people do not want to be cheered up. I get that 100% and, although I am sure I made the mistake before, I am trying hard to understand and respect these boundaries I am just saying I believe wearing such a pin to avoid people would have a noticeable cobra effect
minus-square@Psychodelic@lemmy.worldlinkfedilink2•2 months agoAhh I get u now. Yeah, that’s totally true
You don’t think people would go “aww how come you are down? Let me cheer you up”?
It’s worth realizing some people do not want to be cheered up. My understanding is the misery, for lack of a better word, is more comforting to many as it reminds them of when they were young (or they emulate what they saw around them as children)
I get that 100% and, although I am sure I made the mistake before, I am trying hard to understand and respect these boundaries
I am just saying I believe wearing such a pin to avoid people would have a noticeable cobra effect
Ahh I get u now. Yeah, that’s totally true